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PARKLAND, Fla. (AP) — After a gunman murdered 14 students and three staff members at Parkland’s Marjory Stoneman Douglas Excessive Faculty 5 years in the past Tuesday, their households have been left with a burning query: How can we go on with our lives whereas honoring our liked one’s reminiscence?

Most have answered by beginning foundations or performing different charitable work devoted to quite a lot of causes: defending college students; constructing parks and gardens; offering scholarships; preventing illness and serving to the disabled; sending youngsters to camp; educating youngsters to swim, dance, create artwork or play music and sports activities; and tightening gun legal guidelines.

“For all of them, their largest concern was that their liked one can be forgotten,” mentioned Florida state Rep. Christine Hunschofsky, who was Parkland’s mayor in 2018 when the capturing occurred. “They do that work to maintain their spirit alive.”

Nonetheless, she mentioned, “it’s actually essential to keep in mind that regardless of what number of ‘good issues’ have come out of the aftermath, nobody is ever the identical once more. Nobody loses that ache.”

Many of the households additionally belong to their group, Stand With Parkland. Placing apart political variations, these households work with lawmakers nationally to see more durable faculty security laws enacted, prepare directors to conduct extra thorough menace assessments and guarantee threats reported to the FBI are handed to native regulation enforcement. The group additionally promotes gun security.

“Once we hear to one another, politics does not need to be a foul factor,” mentioned Philip Schentrup, who misplaced his 16-year-old daughter Carmen within the capturing. “Should you notice that 90% of the stuff on this world we agree on, it isn’t onerous to make constructive change.”

Some household initiatives have a political bent, however most don’t. Total, thousands and thousands of {dollars} have been raised.

These are their causes:



After shedding their 14-year-old daughter Alyssa, Ilan and Lori Alhadeff started their basis, Make Our Schools Safe. It advocates in state legislatures for “Alyssa’s Legislation,” which requires that lecturers obtain panic buttons tied on to regulation enforcement. The regulation has been enacted in Florida, New York and New Jersey, and it’s being thought-about federally and in a number of states.

The inspiration has additionally distributed to varsities kits for treating gunshot victims, and it began highschool Make Our Colleges Secure golf equipment to present college students a voice and instruction on violence-prevention.

“We need to do all the pieces that we will to create a safer faculty surroundings,” mentioned Lori Alhadeff, who was elected to the Broward County faculty board 9 months after the capturing. She is now its chairwoman. “We need to ensure that (youngsters) are protected and that they arrive dwelling alive.”

She mentioned being on the varsity board and operating the muse “turned my ache and grief into motion.”

Her daughter frequented the seashore, excelled in math and Spanish, was a gifted author and captain of her soccer crew. She wasn’t afraid to talk her thoughts.

“By Alyssa’s Legislation, I do know Alyssa is saving numerous lives,” she mentioned.



Geography instructor and cross nation coach Scott Beigel died a hero, shot as he herded panicked college students into his classroom, the place all of them survived. In a couple of months, Beigel, 35, would have been working as a summer time camp counselor. He liked camp, attending yearly since he was 6.

“(Camp) was Scott’s magic place,” his mom, Linda Beigel Schulman, mentioned. “He could possibly be a child. He could possibly be whoever he wished to be.”

So, two days after her son’s homicide, she and Beigel’s stepfather, Michael Schulman, began the Scott J. Beigel Memorial Fund, which pays for underprivileged youngsters touched by gun violence to attend sleep-away camp — and return yearly in the event that they keep good grades and keep out of hassle. This summer time, 250 youngsters will take part.

“I need to preserve the children away from medicine and gangs. I need to do it so they do not need to be rehabilitated after they’re incarcerated,” his mom mentioned. “Each a kind of youngsters has a bit of Scott’s coronary heart.”



Martin Duque, 14, was born in Mexico however wished to turn into a U.S. Navy Seal; he belonged to the varsity’s Junior Reserve Officer Coaching Corps. He liked sports activities and was a loyal churchgoer. His household has no recognized basis or charity and has saved out of the general public eye.

“He was a wise child who all the time helped others even earlier than himself,” his household mentioned in an announcement that was learn on the shooter’s trial. “His favourite film was ‘Star Wars.’ He was principally an outdated soul. His household liked him in each scenario and he would inform his dad and mom that when he grew up, he would purchase them a home. We miss him very a lot.”



Nick Dworet was a star swimmer who liked to advertise his sport. The evening earlier than the 17-year-old died, he spoke to the youthful swimmers at his membership to encourage them. That is why his dad and mom, Mitch and Annika Dworet, have centered the Nicholas Dworet Memorial Fund on swimming and water security.

The fund supplies school scholarships to swimmers and divers in South Florida and at Indianapolis College, the place Nick Dworet deliberate to compete. It organizes coaching days for swimmers, works with the Particular Olympics and affords swimming classes for underprivileged youngsters.

“We’re a lot smaller than numerous the opposite charities and foundations of the opposite households,” mentioned Joseph Chiarella, the fund’s treasurer. “However we plan to broaden as wanted and requested.”



Aaron Feis, a safety guard and assistant soccer coach, hurried to the constructing after being instructed a gunman was inside, however he was shot simply as he received to the door. The 37-year-old, who had graduated from Stoneman Douglas, obtained the Nationwide Soccer Basis’s gold medal for his actions.

His dad and mom began a basis in his title that assisted needy college students with provides and different necessities. However the household mentioned it turned an excessive amount of for them to deal with alone throughout the pandemic and went inactive. Feis, Scott Beigel and Chris Hixon, the varsity’s athletic director and wrestling coach who was additionally killed within the assault, have been honored on the 2018 ESPY Awards because the nationwide coaches of the yr.

In an announcement learn on the shooter’s trial, his widow, Melissa Feis, mentioned they met when she was 16 at a church service, and over the following twenty years he “knew he might make a distinction within the lives of others.”

“Aaron had a knack for placing others comfortable. His presence, jovial smile and humor made him an individual others sought to be round,” she wrote. ___


Fred and Jennifer Guttenberg began Orange Ribbons for Jaime in honor of their 14-year-old daughter who liked dance and canine and deliberate to turn into a pediatric bodily therapist. The title comes from the 1000’s of orange ribbons her dance troupe made after Jaime’s homicide — orange was her shade. They have been worn by dance corporations nationwide, together with by the Broadway forged of “Hamilton.”

The charity supplies school scholarships to dancers, particular wants youngsters and college students who need to go into serving to fields, like bodily remedy.

The inspiration can also be beginning “Paws of Love,” which can give puppies and a free yr of canine provides and vet care to households affected by gun violence. Fred Guttenberg mentioned his youngest canine, which was 4 months outdated when Jaime was killed, “saved my household” by giving the couple and their son one thing to take care of.

“I can not see myself doing the political activist factor indefinitely,” mentioned Guttenberg, who has turn into a nationwide spokesman for stronger gun legal guidelines. “However honoring my daughter and making certain that this nation remembers who she was and why she mattered is one thing I am going to by no means cease doing.”



Athletic director and wrestling coach Chris Hixon died a hero — the primary one that tried to cease the shooter. The 49-year-old Navy veteran charged straight at him, however he was hit by gunfire and fell to the ground. He took cowl in an alcove, however he was shot once more. He tried to get to his toes for a number of minutes earlier than regulation enforcement got here to his support.

To honor him, his household began the Chris Hixon Foundation, which supplies scholarships yearly to 5 Broward County athletes. His son, Tom, mentioned the charity quickly hopes to supply sports activities camps, probably for college kids with particular wants, and wrestling tournaments that provide small scholarships to the winners.

Tom Hixon mentioned the household centered on scholarships for athletes to honor the 1000’s his father impressed over his 27-year profession to proceed their educations.

“He knew it wasn’t nearly sports activities — he pressured teachers, too,” Hixon mentioned.



Luke Hoyer, 15, liked sports activities, and his mom, Gena, works with foster youngsters. So she and her husband, Tom, mixed these two pursuits for the Luke Hoyer Athletic Fund, which pays for foster youngsters to take part in journey league sports activities and martial arts and dance classes. These can value greater than $1,000 for every little one, one thing foster dad and mom normally cannot afford and do not get reimbursed for.

Luke was recognized for his dry humor and was jokingly known as “the king of the one-word reply.”

“I’ve all the time appreciated sports activities as a method to assist youngsters as a mini life lesson,” Tom Hoyer mentioned. “The truth that Luke performed sports activities and (his mom) knew that these youngsters could not go into these applications, it appeared like a superb match and the proper factor to do.”



Cara Loughran adored all issues Irish. The 14-year-old, who carried out Irish dance, was set to seem in a St. Patrick’s Day competition the month after her dying. Her household was additionally planning a visit that summer time to the island nation, the place a few of her kinfolk dwell.

The household established Cara Dances On, which supplies school scholarships for college kids on the dance studio the place she took classes. Her mom declined remark.

“She liked the seashore, she liked to surf and, most of all, she liked spending time together with her household,” an announcement learn by a household good friend on the shooter’s trial mentioned. “Dropping Cara has left a crushing absence of their lives.”



Gina Montalto spent a lot of her time studying, learning and drawing. And she or he was an enthusiastic Woman Scout, posthumously receiving the group’s highest rank, the Gold Award.

Generally the 14-year-old with straight A’s and brilliant character wished to be a veterinarian; different instances she wished to design sights for Walt Disney World. Her dad and mom, Tony and Jennifer Montalto, by way of the Gina Rose Montalto Memorial Foundation, are overlaying all these pursuits by serving to dozens of school college students and others.

The inspiration supplies scholarships to Woman Scouts, nursing college students and college students in science, know-how, math and the humanities. There have additionally been scholarships for Stoneman Douglas grads, even to some who merely demonstrated kindness. The inspiration additionally hosts a ceremony for South Florida Woman Scouts who’ve obtained their Silver Award — the best rank a center schooler can obtain — and helps initiatives the place Gina volunteered, together with teams that assist youngsters with particular wants.

As a part of the method, the scholarship recipients find out about Gina and what she stood for, her father mentioned. That helps the household cope.

“We ask that they keep up a correspondence with us at the least yearly to tell us how they’re progressing,” he mentioned. “This can be a approach to preserve Gina’s mild shining.”



Manuel and Patricia Oliver’s objective with their basis, Change the Ref, is to problem the political affect of the Nationwide Rifle Affiliation and gun producers. They are saying the firearms business has purchased and intimidated politicians, resulting in the dying of their 17-year-old son, Joaquin, who was recognized for his writing and his skill to make mates. The inspiration’s title comes from one thing Joaquin would say after dangerous calls value his basketball crew a recreation — that nothing would change with out new refs.

“As soon as we began taking a look at what the foundation explanation for this problem (was), we noticed that these ‘referees’ that we elect do not make the proper calls, so we do not have a good recreation,” Manuel Oliver mentioned.

The couple travels the nation in a modified faculty bus emblazoned with “Cease Gun Violence” to straight confront politicians. For instance, final yr the muse rented 52 faculty buses and drove them to the Houston workplace of Republican Texas Sen. Ted Cruz, the empty seats representing youngsters fatally shot.

Additionally they go after Democrats, together with President Joe Biden. Invited to a gun invoice signing on the White Home final yr, Manuel Oliver shouted “It’s important to do extra!” at Biden earlier than being escorted out.

Patricia Oliver mentioned as a result of their son died in a faculty capturing, they’ve a platform that oldsters whose youngsters died in on a regular basis gun violence do not have.

“It isn’t solely faculty shootings we have to take note of — that could be a very egocentric approach to see it. That is past faculty shootings,” she mentioned.



After Ryan Petty’s 14-year-old daughter Alaina was murdered, he was appointed to the state fee that investigated why the capturing occurred and the way it might have been prevented.

As he discovered what led as much as it, he turned satisfied the reply is not tighter gun legal guidelines, which he says do not work, however simpler intervention and communication by faculty directors, psychological well being suppliers and regulation enforcement. Many individuals reported the Parkland shooter’s threats, however no authorities acted or shared data.

In response, Petty and his spouse, Kelly, began The WalkUp Foundation, which has labored with authorities, regulation enforcement and college officers to enhance communication so potential shooters are recognized. He factors to Secret Service findings that the majority faculty shooters confirmed “disturbing behaviors” nicely earlier than performing.

He mentioned the thought isn’t to arrest extra college students, however to get them assist.

“If these have been reported and acted on by authorities, you may divert that particular person off the pathway to violence, and we predict that’s the finest end result for everybody,” Petty mentioned.

Alaina did volunteer work by way of her church, together with cleanup after 2017’s Hurricane Irma, and took half within the ROTC. She liked watching crime reveals on TV, Spanish music and her canine, and she or he wished to be a mother.

“I could not let (Alaina’s) dying simply move by and never attempt to forestall that from taking place to a different household,” her father mentioned.



Andrew Pollack believes firmly his 18-year-old daughter Meadow and the 5 others who died on the third flooring of the attacked classroom constructing would have lived if the varsity’s sheriff’s deputy had charged inside to confront the shooter on the primary flooring as a substitute of staying exterior.

His basis, Meadow’s Movement, not too long ago started giving backpacks to high school police and safety officers that convert nearly immediately into bullet-resistant vests, unfolding in a single movement over the top. That additionally pulls onto the officers’ chest a rifle with a inventory that unfolds — they gained’t need to confront a well-armed shooter with only a handgun. When not in use, the backpack retains the rifle hidden from college students it’d scare.

“It offers (officers) inside a second one thing … that might even the taking part in subject,” mentioned Pollack, who spoke on the 2020 Republican Nationwide Conference. Nonetheless, he does not suppose Parkland’s deputy, who’s dealing with felony prices for his inaction, would have gone in with a vest and rifle, calling him an obscenity.

His daughter, who wished to be a lawyer, was recognized for her outgoing character and her love of understanding. To honor her love of train and enjoyable, the muse additionally builds playgrounds, together with one costing $1 million not removed from Stoneman Douglas.

“It helps with the therapeutic, seeing the children taking part in and smiling,” he mentioned.



When Helena Ramsay was a bit woman, she would go together with her mom to the neighborhood backyard within the park close to their dwelling to assist plant greens, construct the beds and paint indicators. That made the 17-year-old, who had come to america as a toddler from Nice Britain, a champion of environmental causes, mentioned her mom, Anne Ramsay, who helped handle the backyard.

She mentioned when the capturing occurred, there was nonetheless one part of the backyard that wasn’t getting used. Ramsay mentioned sooner or later she was sitting there, studying and looking for consolation, when a cardinal sat on the fence and commenced singing to her.

“I mentioned, ‘OK God, that’s my Helena speaking with me,’ ” she mentioned.

That was when she determined to make that part a memorial backyard for her daughter, a clarinet participant who was tall, swish and athletic, and a participant in Mannequin United Nations.

Guests to Helena’s part are greeted by a monument that includes a smiling portrait of her and a dedication to those that died within the capturing. Their names are engraved on the again. The backyard options benches for meditating, a small stone labyrinth, or maze, numerous flowers and 17 bamboo timber. Individuals use the world to do yoga, train, learn or chill out.

Ramsay mentioned whereas some households have been extra vocal and public through the years, planting the backyard was extra her type. Helena’s dying was simply one among a string of tragedies to hit the household lately, together with the deaths of Anne Ramsay’s dad and mom and the lack of a nephew in one other capturing.

“I wanted peace and quiet, I wanted therapeutic, and I discovered that on this area of interest,” she mentioned.



After his 14-year-old son Alex died, Max Schachter ended his insurance coverage apply and made selling faculty security his full-time mission. He joined the state fee with Ryan Petty and began Safe Schools for Alex, touring the nation studying the very best safety practices and presenting these to high school districts, regulation enforcement and authorities officers. The inspiration’s web site additionally has a dashboard the place dad and mom in a number of states can study security knowledge for his or her kid’s faculty.

It lets them see if there’s a drawback — or if their faculty’s directors are clearly hiding issues, as Stoneman Douglas’ did. On annual security experiences between 2014 and 2017, Stoneman Douglas administrators claimed their 3,200 college students dedicated zero acts of bullying and three acts of vandalism, for instance.

“Alex was murdered in an unsafe faculty,” Schachter mentioned. “I assumed that is the world the place I might have the most important affect. It isn’t partisan. It isn’t controversial. Faculty security is one thing everybody ought to be capable to rally behind.”

The inspiration additionally supplies on-line one-on-one classes for underprivileged center faculty band members. Alex, who liked automobiles and deliberate to attend the College of Connecticut, performed trombone within the Stoneman Douglas band, which had gained the state halftime present competitors shortly earlier than his homicide.

“It’s one among my happiest recollections,” Schachter mentioned.



Carmen Schentrup had a laser deal with her future — a straight-A scholar and Nationwide Benefit Scholarship finalist, she deliberate to turn into a health care provider who researched amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, generally known as Lou Gehrig’s Illness. The devastating illness, which slowly destroys an individual’s bodily features, had taken two individuals near her: an ideal aunt and a choir director. Carmen, 16, wished to search out its treatment.

That is why her dad and mom, Philip and April, began the Carmen Schentrup ALS Research Fund, also called “Carmen’s Dream,” by way of the ALS Basis. Seeded with the cash their daughter left in her financial savings account, it has now raised greater than $250,000 for the ALS Basis.

“It’s a very constructive end result to see individuals supporting Carmen’s Dream and making an attempt to make the world a greater place,” her father mentioned.



Peter Wang, an ROTC member, dreamed of attending america Navy Academy and changing into a pilot. After the 15-year-old’s dying, the academy accepted his admission, having an Military officer ship the letter to his dad and mom.

The household has began the Peter Wang Foundation, which affords a scholarship to assist deprived college students from the native Chinese language-American neighborhood and makes charitable donations to organizations Peter supported. A basis spokesman mentioned Wang’s mom, Linda Wang, is presently in China and unavailable for remark.

“I do not know how you can use language to precise the ache of shedding my oldest son, Peter,” his mom mentioned in an announcement learn on the shooter’s trial. “He had all the time made me so proud. I’ve 4 tattoos of Peter on my physique. I get one yearly on Feb. 14 to represent that he’s nonetheless with me.”

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