In 2023, Selena Gomez was vocal about enjoying her single life, often poking fun at her relationship status on TikTok and even releasing her song “Single Soon.” At the time, she shut down speculation about her love life despite being briefly linked to Drew Taggart of The Chainsmokers, insisting she was happily unattached.
Fast forward to today, and everything has changed. Selena is now married to record producer Benny Blanco, confirming their romance in late 2023 before tying the knot in 2025. The pair, who had known each other for years through music collaborations, turned their friendship into a love story that has captured fans’ hearts.
Throughout 2023, Selena Gomez, 31, has not shied away from sharing her single relationship status. However, the singer and actress recently confirmed that she and record producer Benny Blanco are dating.
While Selena’s relationship history includes high-profile romances with stars like Justin Bieber, The Weeknd, and others, she’s now focused on her new chapter with Benny. Take a look back at her dating history and how she found lasting love.
Back when they were young Disney stars, Selena and Nick Jonas had a cute little romance that started in 2008 after he broke up with Miley Cyrus. Selena even played Nick’s love interest in the Jonas Brothers’ 2008 music video, “Burnin’ Up.” Sadly, the romance didn’t last very long. And in 2015, Selena remembered the innocent fling as “puppy love, you know, it was very sweet.”
Another one of Selena’s earliest studs was none other than Twilight star Taylor Lautner! They met in 2009 while filming movies in Vancouver (Selena was shooting Ramona and Beezus and Taylor was shooting Twilight: New Moon).
“Kristen [Stewart] was staying in my hotel. [Taylor] would visit her, so we were constantly running into each other in the lobby—and we ended up meeting,” Selena explained in a 2009 interview with Seventeen. “We would go out to lunch and dinner, but I knew he had paparazzi following him and I had paparazzi following me. So we literally just wanted to hang out, go bowling and stuff, and it went a little too far, I think. People were getting a little crazy about us.” However, Selena confirmed she was single by the time of her Seventeen interview. Her best friend, Taylor Swift, went on to date Taylor for several months later that year.
