Gene Hackman was an American actor who rose to fame following his role in 1967’s Bonnie and Clyde, which earned him his first Academy Award nomination. After more than 40 years in the business and filling up his resume with 100 roles, plus two Academy Awards, Gene unofficially retired from the business in 2004. “I haven’t held a press conference to announce retirement, but yes, I’m not going to act any longer,” he told Reuters in 2008. “I’ve been told not to say that over the last few years, in case some real wonderful part comes up, but I really don’t want to do it any longer.”
However, following his Irish exit, he dove into another art: writing novels. “I like the loneliness of it, actually. It’s similar in some ways to acting, but it’s more private and I feel like I have more control over what I’m trying to say and do,” he explained. “There’s always a compromise in acting and in film, you work with so many people and everyone has an opinion. … I don’t know that I like it better than acting, it’s just different. I find it relaxing and comforting.”
Although he appreciated the “loneliness” of writing, Gene was far from alone. He enjoyed a 30+ year union with his wife, Betsy Arakawa. However, their lives were cut short in February 2025 when the spouses, and their dog, were found dead in their New Mexico home, per the Associated Press.
Read on to learn all there is to know about their relationship, as well as Gene’s previous marriage to his first wife, Faye Maltese.
Betsy Arakawa was a retired classical pianist. She was born in Hawaii and was 63 when she died, per the AP.
Gene and Betsy were rarely seen in public, and according to a person close to the sweet couple, they enjoyed their low-key life away from the spotlight in their Santa Fe, N.M. home. “His health is good, he still bicycles, does yard work and he’s a great handyman,” the insider told Closer Weekly in 2020. “After all the drama of Gene’s career, he loves the peaceful life he shares with the lovely Betsy.”
The Golden Globe Award-winning actor and the musician met at a fitness center in Los Angeles where Betsy was working as a part-time employee, per Closer Weekly. Gene’s divorce from his first wife, Faye Maltese, was still pending when they met. Their marriage lasted from 1956 to 1986. Gene and Betsy reportedly began dating in 1984 and walked down the aisle in 1991.
